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It’s been near thirty years
since my dad died
and when his bones—
burned and ground to dust—
reassemble, they visit here
and tell me to
clean my room. Sometimes
they ask what good am I
doing in the world, sometimes
they just cry about missing
my mom. He’d never tell her
this. Nor will I. But
I will paint a portrait
of him and hide the tears
behind the easel to make
the painting more believable.
I call my son and ask him
what my bones will
one day say to him
and he replies: nothing
that you’ve not already
written in a poem.
_____
remembering
a red bow tie
in the dead man’s urn
~

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Copyright 2025 Dick Westheimer
Dick Westheimer lives in rural southwest Ohio with his wife and writing companion, Debbie. He is winner of the 2023 Joy Harjo Poetry Prize. His chapbook, A Sword in Both Hands, Poems Responding to Russia’s War on Ukraine, is published by SheilaNaGig.
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Those last 3 couplets–love.
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A plain-spoken, simply wrought, incandescent poem, especially “and hide the tears behind the easel to make the painting more believable…”
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Exactly. Thank you, Bonnie.
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It’s poems like this that give me hope that we can be better parents. I look at my children now and see that they are better parents than I was, and that makes me happy.
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Beautiful, Jim. Thank you.
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If only the broken bones of our humanity can reassemble–
This poem illuminates us for that job, a candle of words above the bow-tied urn–
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Beautiful, Jim. Thank you.
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