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Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer: Embracing the Mess
For my son
I didn’t know you used to straighten
the shelves at the toy store in town
until tonight, when my friend told me
you used to go there to play after school
while hanging out with your friends, and then,
to her shock, you’d put everything away.
No other kids ever did that, she said.
But that was your nature—
you who kept rows of mechanical pencils
in perfect lines on your desk.
You who ate one thing at a time on your plate.
Sometimes I pull out memories of you
and scatter them all over the house—
memory of smelling all the spices in the spice drawer,
memory of building pirate ships out of couches,
memory of playing Legos on the floor.
Setting up the drum set in the doorway.
Playing chase to Krishna Das before bed.
They’re everywhere, these memories.
I don’t even try to stack them away
in the closet, color coded, neatly folded,
though that is in my nature, too.
I like it best when the memories are everywhere—
and I stumble over the ghosts of wooden train tracks,
trip on the spot where you used to do push-ups,
fall all over the memory of your ski gear, neatly laid out,
and there, on the piano, I remember it well,
your music spread out next to mine.
Copyright 2022 Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer
Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer co-hosts the Emerging Form podcast on creative process, Secret Agents of Change (a surreptitious kindness cabal) and Soul Writer’s Circle. Her next collection, All the Honey, comes out in April, 2023.
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Rosemerry, thank you so much for sharing even painful thoughts and doing it so helpfully and with shining class. You soar, word woman, and take us with you. I treasure you. Sally
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Sally, thank you. Thank you, friend, for all the ways I’ve felt your support. For years!! I am grateful for you.
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❤️❤️❤️
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Thanks for your encouraging responses to the poems in VP, Lisa.
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I’m ever grateful for you, poet ❤️
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An elegy indeed
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Thank you, friend.
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Beautiful tribute Rosemerry! Thank you for sharing! We all have precious memories of someone we loved and lost!
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Thanks, Annie. Yes–those memories, how they weave through us and become us as we carry the love light of our beloveds forward
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I find memories of my sister music and song
and cookies and marshmallow cream fudge. She will always be in my laughter and in my love for for others. ❤️Thank you, Rosemerry, for your beautiful poem that made me think about these things! Once again, I find my eyes leaking , but love is worth it.
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Thank you, Shelley, for this lovely response.
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Love is worth it. Amen. These lists of memories, they are such intimate, personal and universal expressions of love.
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