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Rachel Hadas: Ghost guest

I sometimes think I recognize the face
of my own death. Knowing it is nearer
makes me feel it ought to be familiar,
a neutral guest I’ve seen somewhere before.
Even if it’s not a face I know,
can it be ignored,
that shadow presence quiet in a corner?
And therefore as a stranger give it welcome.
Which is the lesser of two evils here,
which the least boorish way to be a host?
Who is hosting whom? If I’m a host,
I’m also just as much a guest, a ghost.
What heart heard of, ghost guessed. So,


death, I’ll acknowledge you, I’ll be polite,
hand you a drink and let you circulate
and talk with others. You will cycle back.
Precisely: at my back I always hear
and do not hear and see and do not see,
know and do not know you’ll catch up with me.
Since I think I know you from somewhere,
why should I be so sure
that you do not know me at least as well,
my length of days and my Achilles heel,
which in each person’s in a different place?
Sometimes I think I recognize your face.

Rachel Hadas is the author of many books, including Love and Dread (Measure, 2021).

Copyright 2021 Rachel Hadas. First published in The New Criterion. Included in Vox Populi by permission of the author.

4 comments on “Rachel Hadas: Ghost guest

  1. Barbara Huntington
    December 29, 2021

    At a certain age we realize it has always been there looking over our shoulder. When my first husband died in a fiery speedboat race, parents, friends, beloved pets, the second husband of Parkinson’s. At a certain age, we’ve become way too familiar with death’s presence.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Rosemary Roenfanz
    December 29, 2021

    Very thought-provoking. I didn’t think anyone else gave much thought to death besides me! Glad I’m not so alone.

    Liked by 1 person

  3. Chard deNiord
    December 29, 2021

    Powerful and beautifully written.

    Liked by 2 people

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